When Excellence Meets Energy: Building a Commitment Culture (Not a Compliance One)
- Caroline Esterson
- Nov 3
- 4 min read

There’s a world of difference between doing something because you have to… and doing it because you give a damn. That’s the line between compliance and commitment.
And right now, a lot of teams are running dangerously close to the compliance edge - ticking boxes, following rules, surviving the week.
They’re not bad people. They’re just tired.
The Energy Leak Epidemic
You can spot an energy leak from a mile away:
The sigh before a meeting.
The passive “yeah, sure” in chat.
The email that feels like it was typed with one eye open.
These aren’t performance issues - they’re state issues. And your state is your broadcast.
In sport, athletes know they can’t afford to “show” a bad day. Energy leaks dent performance. In leadership, it’s the same. Emotional energy is contagious. A 2018 Gallup study found that employees who described their leader as “energetically consistent” were 53% more engaged and 39% more productive.
That’s not about charisma - that’s about regulation. You can change your physiological state in seconds: calm your breath, create a strong posture, focus on your tone, and be clear about your intention. For example, whisper the outcome you want before the meeting:
“I want calm clarity in this room.”Within seconds, your heart rate, voice, and presence shift.
The difference between a room that runs on tension and one that hums with purpose is often one person’s state management.
The Discipline of Excellence
Let’s get real, excellence isn’t about working harder. It’s about showing up better, smarter, and with pride.
Discipline is what keeps the engine running when motivation’s lost its spark. It’s the quiet repetition that builds muscle memory, credibility, and trust.
And yes, grit matters, the kind of grit that looks like:
Saying “no” to distractions.
Finishing the thing you started.
Choosing progress over panic.
Research backs this up. Angela Duckworth’s work on grit shows that perseverance (not raw talent) is the best predictor of long-term success. And studies from the Journal of Applied Psychology (2021) show that emotional regulation improves decision-making accuracy by up to 24%. So if you want excellence, start with discipline and emotional mastery - not just KPIs and slogans.
The Commitment/Compliance Curve
Let’s talk about that curve - the one that divides “I have to” from “I want to.”
On the compliance level, people react, absorb, and tolerate. They say, “I’ll do it if I must.”On the commitment level, people engage, act, and own. They say, “I’ll do it because it matters.”

The curve isn’t a personality test. It’s a reflection of culture.If your team’s been living in constant change, fire-fighting mode, or top-down control, they’re probably sliding down the curve - into compliance.
Because compliance is a symptom. It’s what happens when people feel done to, not part of.
Zone | Core Energy | Mindset Soundbite | Behaviour Snapshot | What They Really Mean |
🔴 Compliance (Bare Minimum Crew) | Low energy, low ownership | “I have to.” | Tick-boxing, detached, emotionally checked out. | “I stopped trying because it stopped mattering.” |
🟠 Cynical Contribution (The Protective Middle) | Low-to-medium energy, defensive ownership | “I’ll do my bit, but don’t ask for more.” | Meets expectations but withdraws when unseen or undervalued. | “I’ve been burned before, so I protect my energy.” |
🟡 Obligation (The Good Soldier) | Medium energy, steady effort | “I should.” | Reliable, dutiful, structured — but lacks spark or innovation. | “I care, but this isn’t mine.” |
🟢 Commitment (Pride & Purpose) | High energy, high ownership | “I want to.” | Calmly driven, takes pride, looks for improvement, energises others. | “This reflects on me — so I do it properly.” |
What Gets in the Way of Commitment
Feedback that drains, not develops. Too much feedback still sounds like judgment, not coaching. Commitment thrives on clarity and belief - not blame.
Performance obsession over purpose. When people feel like cogs in a machine, they’ll do what’s required - and no more.
Energy mismanagement. Leaders who leak stress infect the room. Teams who never reset lose curiosity. Calm is a performance advantage.
Lack of visible progress. Commitment thrives when people see movement - not just meetings.
How to Build a Commitment Culture
Plug the leaks. Before every meeting, take 30 seconds to prime your state: breathe, name your intention, and visualise the outcome. You can’t lead commitment if you’re broadcasting chaos.
Reward pride, not just performance. Celebrate craft, not just completion. Ask: “What are you proud of this week?” - and mean it.
Make feedback a partnership. Use language that connects effort to growth:
“I see how much you’ve put in - how can we channel that energy for even more impact next time?”
Protect space for mastery. Give people permission to deepen their work, not just churn through it. A 45-minute “craft block” can do more for engagement than another alignment call.
Model calm consistency. Energy is leadership currency.Y our tone sets the temperature. Your composure gives others permission to think clearly.
From Compliance to Commitment
Commitment isn’t about working more hours or smiling harder. It’s about believing your contribution matters. It’s what happens when pride, purpose, and progress line up.
If you want excellence, start by designing a culture where people can care without burning out.
Compliance might get you obedience. But commitment gets you ownership, creativity, and excellence that lasts.
Bold Move: Run the 5-Min Leak Audit after your next meeting. Score yourself 1-5 on calm clarity. Then write one better closing line for next time.
Because if your energy leaks, so will everyone else’s.


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